David moving in next week

It's been over 6 months since we met. The lease is finishing at his place and the leaseholder (his ex) is moving, so he's moving in with me. We may get our own place after that, but at the moment he just needs to get out of where he is. Is constantly arguing with his ex, who's still a schizophrenic, still doesn't take his pills, and still drinks like a fish. Everything his ex says seems to be loaded with some sort of barbed innuendo.

Said to David I was worried, his ex being schizophrenic, that he could get violent. That or he'd push David so far in some argument that David would lose it as well. The whole relationship, whatever it was in the past, is now completely toxic to both of them.

So it's going to be a rather strange sort of household. Two gay guys, my daughter and her boyfriend (he seems to live here most of the time), and three cats. Daughter's boy cat only a year old, and David's two cats of 10 and 17. Daughter's freaked out that they're going to fight with each other, but the two girls are very docile and friendly. One's been a mother so we're predicting some interest with her and the boy cat.

Think David and I are both a bit nervous about the move, certainly a big step for David. But I spend so much time around his place we're just about living together anyway. 

And despite all the nerves, it's a chance we both want to take.