Friday, 30 September 2016

Irish "Yes" vote co-directer says no plebiscite Australia

Dr Grainne Healy, co-director of Ireland's Yes Equality campaign

The christians point to Ireland and the referendum they had over there as an example of a respectful debate on marriage equality and that nobody got hurt over there, so WTF are we LGBT talking about that the debate here will have serious implications for our mental health. They say we're just making it up to avoid the plebiscite, and it worked in Ireland so it will work here.

However the co-director of the Yes campaign in Ireland, Dr Grainne Healy, tells a different story. Campaigners who needed counseling after coping dreadful abuse face to face when out and about for the cause. Some of the most shocked were straight allies who just couldn't believe how their LGBT friends were being treated. Rainbow families walking past signs saying "Every child needs a mother and father".

All we saw was the end result here in Australia. There was no reporting that I've seen anyway of the abuse and mental health struggles imposed on Irish LGBT people because of the referendum. Thing is, Ireland had to have one according to it's laws. Australia doesn't.

Healy has written a letter to our politicians urging them not to have a plebiscite, below in it's entirety:
Dear Sir or Madam:

 I write as the Co-Director of the Yes Equality campaign in Ireland mindful of the 62% Yes vote of the binding referendum in May 2015 which gave constitutional protection to same-sex couples. As Chairwoman of Marriage Equality Ireland for over a decade we are delighted that we were able to see our goal achieved, however, a referendum campaign, even one as positive and successful as Yes Equality's was a brutal affair at times, for LGBT people, our families and even for our mobilised straight allies.

The No side posters which declared that 'every child deserves a mother and a father' were deeply hurtful and upsetting for LGBT headed families as they passed the posters on lamp posts and bill boards across the country - explaining to our children that they were ok and trying to hide the posters from them was awful for LGBT parenting families. The nature of plebiscites is that they allow negative hurtful images and comments to be published in the name of 'fair canvassing'. Likewise, listening to the untruths and ill informed hate speech on radio or tv during the campaign was damaging and unforgettable for some. Dr Glenda Russell (2000) has studied the damaging psychological impact that anti-lgbt actions have on the LGBT community.

For those canvassing for a Yes, knocking on doors and asking for a Yes vote was not always a positive experience. In fact, during the campaign canvass, we at Yes Equality HQ, made the decision to offer counselling supports to canvas teams - some of those most upset by the negative comments made to them about LGBT people were straight allies - they were appalled at the awful comments made and required psychological counselling. Likewise, some LGBT canvassers who were out asking for rights for themselves suffered greatly from the hateful comments they heard on doorsteps and in train or bus stations while canvassing.

For our friends in Australia, I would ask that you do not underestimate how horrible and damaging an experience canvassing in such a campaign can be - even in a campaign like ours which was predicated on positive messaging and upbeat imagery and hugely successful social media campaign with national champions for marriage equality coming out - it was a gruelling experience - at least we knew that at the end of it, if we won, we would have full constitutional equality for LGBT marriage rights. To hold a non-binding plebiscite seems to be at the least insensitive to the LGBT community who will bear the brunt of the negative campaigning and at best will lead to an experience of divisive, hurtful campaigning, with no guarantee of progressing marriage equality.

As a civil and human rights issue of equality, as a matter of family equality and as a matter of equality for our sons and daughters and our friends and workmates - legislation to introduce marriage equality is what is needed in Australia and those who support marriage equality rights must move to see that legislation introduced as quickly as possible and the proposed divisive plebiscite should not take place.

Yours Sincerely,

Dr Grainne Healy Co Director of Yes Equality Chairwoman Marriage Equality. The Huffington Post